Family Themes for Lent
Family Themes and Activities for Lent


LENT:   Lent is a forty-day liturgical (church) season that initiates the most sacred
part of the Christian year.  Lent begins on Ash Wednesday and ends on the Great
Vigil of Easter.  Sundays are not included in the forty-day count because every
Sunday is a joyful celebration of our Lord's resurrection.  During Lent, Christians
meditate with awe and thanksgiving on the great paschal (Easter) mystery -- the
salvation God won for us sinners by the suffering, death, and resurrection of
Jesus Christ.


ASHES:  Represent humility (submitting yourself to God).  Ashes also represent
mourning (a time when someone dies) and sorrow (sadness).   Putting ashes on
our foreheads shows that we are all sinners (people who don’t always do the right
thing) and that we need God’s forgiveness (we tell God we are sorry and he tells
us that he forgives us).  We use these ashes as a sign that we are willing to clean
our hearts and minds (like cleaning a house and getting ready for company).  We
do this through prayer and learning more about Jesus.  Some people will fast
(give up eating a meal) or by giving up something they like to eat or something
they like to do.

Lent can also be a time to do something nice for other people.  Maybe you could
buy food for poor people or clean your closet and donate clothes or toys to kids
who don’t have as much as you.  Lent can also be a time to do something nice for
someone in your family without them knowing that you did it.  Maybe you could
pick up toys or make your bed before your mom or dad asks you.  

  • Activity:  Learn a new prayer with your family.  
Pray for family or friends; pray in thanksgiving for teachers, food, or pets.  
Remember to pray for people in need.


Cross:  We see crosses on churches and in churches.  People wear crosses to
show others that they follow Jesus.
Jesus died on a cross and because he rose from the dead on Easter, the cross
became a symbol of victory over death and salvation (saving) from sin.  The cross
is a sign of both death and most importantly of love—Jesus love for all of us—
everyone.

As Lent continues we will see the cross at our church service.  One Sunday we
might walk outside waving palm branches and following someone who is leading
us with a cross.  On another day we might walk the Stations of the Cross.  These
are pictures that hang on the wall and we read part of the Easter story as we walk
from picture to picture in the church.  Again we will probably be following
someone who is carrying a cross.  On Easter Day we will all bring flowers to
church and at the beginning of the service as we sing a song we will put flowers
on a cross to show what a beautiful thing Jesus has done for us and that we are
very happy that Jesus has Risen (from the dead).

  • Activity:  Make a cross with your family.  Wood, paper, blocks—anything you
    have available.  Put the cross somewhere you will see it every day.  Don’t
    forget to put flowers on your cross on Easter Day.

Purple:

Purple is the color of Lent.  The color purple is used until Palm Sunday when the
color changes to red.  Good Friday the color changes to black.   

Purple is the color of royalty (King of Kings), repentance (sorrow) and self-
discipline (for example: making yourself better by praying or studying).

  • Activity:  When you see someone wearing the color purple—at home or
    anywhere—try to remember something that you are thankful for and say a
    quick prayer of thanksgiving.  You might say thank you for the person who
    is wearing the color purple or for your mom, dad, sister, brother or some
    other special person in your life.

Water:  Water is used in our church service every Sunday when we celebrate the
Eucharist (Great Thanksgiving).  We also use water on special occasions when
someone is Baptized.  During what we call Holy Week—the week leading up to
Easter--water is used on Maundy Thursday when Jesus washes the feet of his
disciples.

  • Activity:  Place a bowl of water where you can be reminded of the important
    times that water is used in the church to remind you of what Jesus has done
    for us.  If you made a cross last week, you could put a small bowl of water
    next to the cross.

Maundy Thursday:  Maundy Thursday is also the day we celebrate The Last
Supper—when Jesus gave us the gift of the Eucharist.  This is also the day that
Jesus washed the feet of his disciples.  This is the day that Jesus was betrayed
for a payment of 30 pieces of silver by one his disciples (follower/student), Judas
Iscariot, which means that Jesus was turned over to the Romans to be tried and
then killed on the cross.  Maundy is a Latin word that means commandment.  
Maundy Thursday is also remembered as the day that Jesus told his disciples and
all of us “to love one another”.   

  • Activity:  Bake some bread to remember the Eucharist—or wash the feet of
    one of your family members to show them that you love them—or make a
    sign that says “Love one another” (John 13:34)

Eucharist:  Eucharist is the time on Sunday and on other days when we receive
bread and wine representing the Body and Blood of Jesus.  This act of receiving
bread and wine has many names.  It is called the Eucharist; The Holy Communion;
The Great Thanksgiving, The Lord’s Supper, and other such phrases.  Symbols of
the Eucharist are bread and wine; grapes and wheat; cup and host.  When we go
back into church, look at the symbols on the altar and notice the grapes, wheat,
cup, and host (a host is the flat round bread of the Eucharist). All of these symbols
represent Jesus’ gift to us on Maundy Thursday.  We receive the Eucharist to
remember these gifts from Jesus and to receive forgiveness for our sins.

  • Activity:  On Maundy Thursday, April 5, 2007, try to remember to have bread
    and grapes as part of your meal.  Bread and grapes (grapes are used to
    make wine) will help us remember this special day and all that Jesus did for
    us.      
Church School set up for
Lenten lessons: water, bread,
grapes, and the cross.

Q: Why do so many Episcopal Churches have red
doors?
A: It's because red doors traditionally mean "sanctuary"
-- the ground beyond the doors is holy, and anyone who
goes through them is safe from physical (and spiritual)
harm. In ancient times, no one could pursue an enemy
past red doors into a church, and certainly no one could
be harmed or captured inside of a church. Today, the
red reminds us of the blood of Christ and that we are
always safe in God's care!  (Taken from The Info Desk
of the National Episcopal Church Website)
What is an icon?
The Greek word
"eikon" literally
means "image" and
theologically
speaking is defined
as the word of God
depicted through the
use of line and color.
This is why icons are
often said to be
written instead of
painted.
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